Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

Hey sparkls,

Ok I think I will not get her anything .I don't think we ever give each other stuff for easter. Getting her anything at this point is not going to change anything. In a few weeks I will still be signing the S agreement, Our house sold firm, that wont change, We have both our new houses to move to, that wont change.
Of which she is now telling me about her place and the stuff that needs to be done to it. She did not ask out right. I guess that her dad is doing that work. I know how it goes and she might ask me to do the work. I do not do the work. I am too busy. I am not available. No, with her separating from me, she fired me from that job. can I say that to her?

She has already invited me to her new place to see it. I dotn plan on going. She is telling me to drive the kids by my place so the kids can see it. She has done that with her place.

Here is a good one. W wanted us all to watch a movie with the kids a couple of nights ago but not a guy type movie so I picked Enchanted. A Disney movie that was so fitting in so many ways. Kids loved it. Who knows what wife thought. It was great psychological warfare.

Its down to the wire and time is not on my side right now as the one year wait period before divorce can be filed is up in june.

I am planning no contact but for the kids. I am planning on not helping her move out. May mean I will have to lie about my availability. Looks like I will be getting my place first.

Also next up is splitting the house hold items. So much happening.