1) How does one read into what she's thinking when she constantly brings up plans for the house? ie certain renovations, re-organizing, gardening etc.? I see this as she's in a confused state and may still see herself moving back in one day (gives me hope?)
2) In our long discussion about the A earlier this week, she doesn't see a future where I can trust her again nor where she could feel comfortable as I'd always be watching her. She's been on the other side of an A before so has personally experienced how long Trust can take and doesn't want to have to put our relationship through that. I just don't want this to be the sole factor in preventing her return one day if she's got this in her mind. How can one present to her that Trust can be rebuilt and that it's worth it? And does one do that now or later?
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
