Im off work and with the kids for the holidays, W has to work for two of the days. W had put in the S agreement that we would try to have holidays with the kids together. Well Easter she took them to her cousins for a quick dinner. That what she tells me a quick dinner. 6 hours later they come home. Before she leaves she whispers in my hear so the kids cant hear, don't forget we are putting out the eggs tonight. She came home so late and was so tired that she put a few out and left the rest to me.
Yesterday before she left I wanted to take the kids to a local easter egg hunt. Kids were giving us a hard time and W wanted to call it off. I told her no way. As it was easy for her to say that knowing she was spending time with them at her cousins house. This was my easter time with them.
We ended up going with kids and I, and had a great time.
This morning same thing I was spending time with the kids and got them both riding their bikes, was my oldest first time really riding the bike for a good long time on his own. Proud dad moment.
Then W agreed to take them to a park so they could ride more before they left to grandmas. I was not invited to inlaw for sunday dinner and my GAL is over for soccer and dog training. I was available and W knew it. Still no invite. I didn't say anything just subtle to let her know I was available.
So we put out easter eggs and in the morning S4 gives me chocolates and a scratch card from easter bunny Wife. I got her nothing. Didn't know it was a time to give anything. I thanked her later for it.
Now do I go get something for her now while she is out to a dinner that I could have went to but she did not invite me to? or do I just leave it?
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016