Stepping in a Different Direction

[Pax_luv]

Hello and Happy Easter!

I had a good week of Galing and am getting ready to go visit the fam for Easter. All is well.

I have also been thinking about h a bit lately. I visited a friend this week who I deliberately haven't seen in 6 months. She's a mutual friend of me and h and when I last saw her in September, I realized I didn't want to see her again anytime soon because I was a mess and she knew too much about the situation between h and me. Of course, she only knew H's side and I wasn't going to be the type of person to try and share my side to sway her opinion of the sitch. So I decided to distance myself from her.

Well, I saw her this week and it was great to catch up. She didn't really bring up h except for a few times. I made sure not to bring him up. Instead, she really got to get to know the new me. She was amazed with all the cool things I had to share that happened in the last few months and I think it was a great bonding session. She did mention that her and her h were taking out my h for his bday today. I know exactly what their plans are. when texting with h today, he mentioned that he might venture out a little later. Maybe. Ok, so this is a minor minor detail, but I wonder.... Why not just say " I'm goin out at 2" (or whatever).... Why be so vague and non-commital? It doesn't make sense to me.

I've also been at this a bit and have been watching my sitch from a distance. The less detailed I am with my texts, the more detailed he becomes. When I take my time to respond (sometimes between 4-24 hours depending on the sitch), he'll mirror that. Its just an observation... Doesnt mean anything.

Well, that's it for now! Hope everyone has a great day!