Time for a new thread. The timing is appropriate. It has been a crazy journey these past 9 months. When I get some time I am going to go back and reread all my threads. That will be real interesting.
I came up with my list of 'sign posts' a while back. Slowly, they all started to get checked off. At first, it was as simple as WW responding to a text. Today, another will get checked off. I am going to see her for the first time in over 8 months today, almost 9 months to the day from BD.
I feel good about it. I have regained that confidence I had back in the day. I've gained about 15% of my body weight since BD, in a good way ;-). My invisalign is going strong really straightening out my teeth. My social skills have improved a ton. I know that I will be 100% fine regardless of what happens and that is the most important thing that I have learned over the past 9 months.
Today, I really do not have any expectations. I am good no matter how this whole thing turns out. I don't have any relationship issues that I want to discuss today. I'll just let her talk, validate and try not to get into anything to deep. There will be time for that later. I am just going to be confident, positive and easy breezy. It will be an interesting experience for sure.
