I am a little confused about the separation. Did she kick you out?
I suggest you get your finances protected ASAP! Do not trust her about anything. This is not the girl you married.
Have a lawyer who will fight for father's rights. You need to know if you leaving your home will affect anything.
There are varying opinions about exposure. Some claim it worked in saving the M, some don't. MWD does not support it.
Use this time wisely. Not in pursuing her, but in your own personal improvement. Why did you fall back into the "same old"? You need to get your sh't together, before trying to have a R with her. KWIM?
Get a life! When you don't have the kids, get out and do things you haven't done in a long time. Go places, try new activities, have fun. People who emotionally survived their ordeals have claimed that GAL is absolutely necessary. Besides being good for your own mental health and esteem, it makes you much more outgoing and interesting. It can also work in stirring her curiosity, and help make you appear a little mysterious........which appeals to most women. But bottom line is it's good for you!
I do suggest that you not burn your bridges or put stumbling blocks in the road back to reconciliation. People usually do those things when they are angry or reacting to the emotional pain.
It is important to read the links Cadet posted.
i have read all the links 2-3 times, i am implementing them. GAL setting boundaries standing up to WW, no more door mat. trying to not let her eat her cake.
where i live it is no fault separation/divorce. 50/50 of property and K visitation cannot be ever taken away. even if i leave the home.
Me 41 W 38 S5 S11 S13 M10 T16 03/06 B drop 1, OM found 1 mth in 03/06 Physical Seperation
