the rumor of A is spreading and some of her childhood Friends have disowned her. but WW now states, she knows who her Real Friends are(A enablers). She unfriended my friends from her list, probaly from embarrasment. I have only told 3 frieneds that did not leak. only i know of 1 that leaked. WW confronted me about this , thinking i am blabbing around. but i have not.
i talked to her yesterday , stating we both made this M fail.i called her a bullly in the marriage, thats the reason i avoided WW, not because i wasn't attracted to her. and that was the vicous cyl. i think she got it.
she is determined to move on, still saying ILYBNILWY. and wants to remain friends. Stating all WW friends cant believe how civil we are.
i called out her A was more than a Txt EA, she denied it... (WW said it was just a TXT EA during the A and she did it "right" (leaving me), but i said i have evidence(iphone clould backup and i have a copy of her phone) that it was more than a phone EA. she asked not to tell her parents. i said yes i wont.
the K are obviously acting out , ie. fighting, getting sick or pretending to be. yesterday she calls me to calm down the S12.(S12 and S10 fighting) and thanked me, i waited 15min to respond , before i did WW said "im sorry for bothering you" I said "your welcome"
Next morning (per her request) text back and see how S12 is doing. WW replies" he is fine, this is just a hormoanal thing and he ate a bunch of candy, thats why hes acting out" tcha right.
WW stated, im trying not to get upset with them (WW was a (controling W)yeller at LBS and K, WW is stating things are getting better with the K but its still a wrk in progress. WW then thanked me for being there last night.
WW calls me again "S6 wants to say happy easter" S does, then WW asks "sorry for bothering you last night, are you mad?" LBS" no... i ll see you at 8:00, i gotta go"
8:00 today we are to meet for the division of property agreement. in a public place. WW went to her lawyer and "calculated" the divsion and wants to show me.
Questions. 1. why all of a sudden she is calling my phone all the time, after my "i know everything" speech 2. is she eating her cake by calling me to "talk to my S to be a phone in Dad" 3. i am very wary of the div of property, i dont want to get ripped, but laws wont her to allow it. 50/50.
Boundaries. tonight i will be stating my boundaries to her. - OM has facebook liked pics of WW+S11 , also pics of S11 by himself (twice). i will be telling WW to tell OM to Unlike those pics of my S - OM must not have meet K's for play dates etc, if she wants this A, K must not meet him.
Me 41 W 38 S5 S11 S13 M10 T16 03/06 B drop 1, OM found 1 mth in 03/06 Physical Seperation
