Unsure of what's next

[Sparkls]

Hey Iwad. Sorry there hasn't been a lot of activity from us here yet, it's been a rough week for many of us (myself included) and we kind of hibernated a little.

I'll come back and respond a bit longer shortly but I just wanted to give you some encouragement. WS seem to always talk in extremes. We are getting divorced, I don't love you, this will never work. And life is never quite that black and white.
What I suggest you do is remove yourself for a bit and really, really try and put yourself in your husbands shoes. What do you see as possible reasons that he's gotten to where he is. A large part of this is *his* problems and you can't change them. The only thing you can do is make yourself someone he can't continue to blame for his unhappiness.

The one thing I also worry about with LDR (I did one with my H for 3 years) is are you sure there isn't someone or something else in the picture? I have no idea if there is or isn't but it's something for you to just be wary of.

But as cadet and sotto have said, the more you tell us about your relationship, what it used to look like, what it does look like now, the more helpful we can be.

The one thing I will tell you is its still early, there's no reason to throw in the towel unless it's what you want