Those men who have a WW that is extremely bitter, cold, angry, and vindictive, may need to get a lawyer who has a reputation for getting everything possible for his client. The LBH needs a lawyer who will fight to gets rights for the father, spousal alimony, physical child support, or whatever he can get.

The LBH who has WW that seems to be more dangerous, or threatening........or if the H stands to lose a lot and suspects she will go after all he has..........needs to get a lawyer who is not afraid to go after her.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!