2T, catching up with your thread. I’m sorry to hear that your sister is in the hospital. I hope there is nothing serious and she will be home soon.

Just wanted to comment on your posts from your previous thread, about your H’s circle of friends and how he brags about them. My H used to want to be around successful, educated, smart people. At some point before the BD he was getting frustrated with some of our friends, saying that they annoy him. I thought it was strange, but what I didn’t know that H was entering into MLC. H is from a family where finishing high school was considered a big achievement. All of his family had to work hard for the living. I don’t remember anyone even in his extended family who would be rich. Essentially, by marring me, H stepped into a different world. I had different friends and we made different friends, we were able to afford things, traveled, etc… I always though that H fit very well into our circle of friends. But, I might be wrong and maybe he always felt uncomfortable. IDK.

With MLC, H has reconnected with the people from his former life. I’m not saying that they are bad people, but some of them are from lower level of the society, to put it politely. This is his new circle of people here, at the vacation home. I guess he feels at home now, LOL.

I remember there was a link on this forum to another song, that was called Welcome to the hotel Midlife Crisis, or something like that. It was a modified version of Eagles Welcome to the hotel California.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state