Sorry ... On my iPhone and hit submit accidentally.

Was going to say: someone who sneaks off like she did is clearly not sane. So, I could not say I would want her having too much time with the kids. It would worry me. Best to do as KML says and put the kids first.

Thinking of you.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced