Welcome aboard. Well, it sounds as if you certainly have your hands full. My first thought is that something has caused her to doubt your faithfulness. Have either of you ever been in any type of an affair in the past?

Does your W have issues with jealousy or anything particularly? Any mental illness that you know about? Has she had violent outbreaks in the past?

Has your W become physically violent toward you or the kids? Does she detach from the family and go into another room to be alone? Has she ever had this type of attitude or neglect toward the kids before all this happened?

It seems to me that the less contact you and your W has right now, the safer for everyone concerned. With that much anger, you just need to stay out of her way.

The more you can tell us about any previous issues in the MR, the better we may be able to help.

What specifically did your coach advise you about this situation?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!