I've actually cooled down a bunch. Can anyone help me with what to say and how to say it? Or is this excessive pressure on the spouse. What I'm having a hard time with isn't the lack of sex tonight (though I wouldn't even be in this state if we had ML). but this whole lack of commitment. In her mind, I'm sure she "feels" committed but her actions don't indicate it. How in the hell do I talk to her? Should I wait and see if she initiates tomorrow? She still might be fearful of catching the stomach virus I had a couple days ago which would be an appropriate excuse for tonight. I really hope I can wait until tomorrow night.
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-Steven Wright
