Long time no see! I don't regard you as pathetic at all, quite the opposite. Any man who puts up with the stuff you have is a titan among men. I hope everything is going OK and you're not having any problems with your kids etc.
Hi RD
I noticed it yesterday, although I have observed it before, I never took much notice. It's as if she can't show a mellow face to SD as that would maybe show weakness etc. I have looked in to the surgery she wants done. At the clinic she's going to see, a consultation costs £150 and the surgery tops out at £10k! Unless she has come in to a nest egg that I don't know about, there is no way she has access to that kind of money, and no ability to get it.
I am apprehensive about the gym. The last time I was in one, Rick Astley was in the charts! I see it as a win-win situation though.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015