Back at you with the hugs Sparkls. Great point of view. My sadness attacks have been fewer and further between also. When I saw W today, I just kept questioning in my mind, "who are you?".

On days when i have my S, she doesnt text or call him,(he has his own phone) to tell him morning, whats up?, or goodnight. I make it a point o have contact with him all through his stay with her. I want him to know he can always count on me to be there, even if I'm not.

If I can say one thing about this whole rotten mess, it has made me a much, much better father. I feel really good about my R with S. She has a long way to go in those regards. Her compassion for what he is going through is non-existent. Not my W. Alien lacking empathy is my spouse.


Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.

Me-50 WAW-45
S13
Married 24 years
Bomb 1-Jan.2008
Disc. EA
She came back for 8 years
Bomb 2-Jan-2016
Separation 3-12-2016