I need to grow a pair, as my cousin always says "Mel you are all brains and no balls." Otherwise my W will never respect me and I won't respect myself.
Couldn't have said better myself.
Instead of thinking of how much you want to hold her, sleep next to her, etc., picture yourself being strong, masculine, sexy, and independent.
This may seem a bit silly, but try it. Do you have a favorite screen actor who shows the male attributes you admire? Imagine how he would handle a situation like yours.
A few years ago there was a man who came to the boards who had the name of Stuck. I am not good about remembering names, but I remember him. He still shows up here to help newcomers. You may know him by a different name. His new name became Bond......as in James Bond.
And, FYI, there was another man who use to go by the name of Chocolate Eyes, then to Puppy, and finally he became known as Starsky. Does that tell you anything?
There have been others, these are just a couple of my favorites.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
