Thanks Gmum, how are you doing anyway? Having another down day. As I stood my ground yesterday, STBXH has decided to treat me the same way as his previous partner. He no longer acknowledge my presence in the house, today he stayed outside instead of usually coming in.

Now my mind is why this should bother me as it's a year now and I can see by his actions that we won't reconcile. Why would I want someone who is happy to treat me in a cold manner despite being together for 11 years, why do I feel worthless and unloved?