Dude, i feel sorry for you, pity, and I am envious that you must have had such a great R with your W.

My sitch is very different. All other [censored] aside I realise now that I never had a great R/M. The only remaining regret that I have surrounds our children, and the ongoing [censored] is really quite incredible. Especially since I have participated in groups of separated parents, my ex is uniquely qualified it seems.

All that aside, coming back to DB snd your post, it reeks that your W knows exactly where she is, albeit deranged. It is no surprise though. I mean - If you were writing a movie - how else would you write her part? faces for places. horses for courses. no more. no less.

it doesn’t mean anything more than that. for how long will it dictate your life?

I am not saying “screw her”, but just let go of it definiing you. I am a pathetic example myself, but I urge you to do as i say and not as i do.

open to R, not waiting!!!!!

(R meaning Relationship with another woman in my case. Reconciliation with ex is out of the question)

-Py


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015