Hmmm. Well, i am kinda in the same boat right at the moment. Her paycheck is barely enough to cover her rent. So groceries and other stuff is coming from joint acct. She is very frugal and always has been but she is really not having to go it alone. I am going to be working to get her off joint acct. But that just creates problems with getting money to support S13 when he is there. Ugh. Probably stay status quo for the time being.
Do you have a legal separation agreement in place, or are you guys just doing it outside the system?
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016