I wanted to post a small obstacle that I feel I got past last night. I was at a pool with my siblings and their kids enjoying ourselves and I spied a very pretty lady playing with her kid. I was not interested in talking with her but it was the first time, i think in my whole M, that I thought of another attractive woman and did not compare her to my wife. It was kind of liberating for me. I came home today and cut grass, did some spring cleaning etc. I can run this place without WAW. I'll show her.
I did end up talking to pretty gal but just to help her find her daughters lost earring. My S13 was the stud and found it for her. Small interactions like that one go a long way for me in my detachment process. We will see what tomorrow brings.
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016