jerkface texted me real late last night. He is not happy and not happy with me.
He texted me instead of his gf a couple days ago and felt so bad about it. Then, on Wednesday, he sent me a text saying he cant make it to Karaoke. I dont know why he sent the text because he has never sent a text any other week telling me he was not coming.
His text was not really a question, so I did not reply.
He was not happy I did not reply.
So I got the text last night H: I have a tough question. Would you be willing to go half on the court costs and filing fees for the divorce.
I am sure he was expecting me to balk. Say no. Tell him, yet again, I dont want a D. Instead...
Me: Sounds great, Is next Friday okay? That is payday. Can we sign that 10 day waiver thing to get it done more quickly?
After a while... H: idk, let me look into it.
Me: Thank you for filing
H: Yes, I know you want this done
------- I dont, but I did not say it because I have already told him a million times I dont want a D. But, my pride did not allow me to end the conversation with him pushing this on me so...
Me: Lol yeah right...
I have mixed feelings about this. My m died a while ago. Pulling the plug is the nicest thing to do for everyone involved. I am excited to see where things might go with Chris or maybe even Brian if Chris does not work out.
But I am sad I am getting a D. I am sad he had A's. I am sad I was wronged and forced into this.
I am very nervous about the kids interacting with Chris. Since I now see Chris 3 out of every 7 days, I think it is time they all meet. Chris is a shy guy, and I know this will be uncomfortable for him. I am not sure how to make this go smooth for him.
The more I think about the D, the more I change from sadness to kinda excited. I LOVE LOVE my maiden name sooo much more than my married name. I really am happy to change that. I am happy to be completely independent of anyone. I can do anything in the world I want to do.
------------- While typing this reply jerkface texted me to let me know we can expedite the D if we pay a little more. By we pay he means I pay for the extra...
I told him i would drop the money off for the D tomorrow. You will never guess what his reply was.
H: Can you pick me up a pack or 2 of ciggs?
HAHAHAHA
What a loser.
OMG, I am going to have the biggest D party. If all goes well, I will be d by April 9th.
I have 2 big trips happening in April
Looks like when I go to Washington, I will be D'ed. When I go to Vegas I will be D'ed. I am SOOOOOO getting M again in Vegas! If i can find the right Elvis that is.
-------------------------- Anyway... Today is Friday and my workday ends in 13 minutes. Brian will be waiting to dance with me, but first I will go with mt group of friends to eat some dinner. And... I never see Chris on Friday, but there was a death in his family and I am going to head up to his house at 11:30 PM when he gets off work to show him some support
Saturday he is taking me to a dance. Sunday is Easter, I dont know if I will see him, but I probably will.
Monday I will go back up to see him again. I never get to see him 4 days in one week. Weird. And it all starts tonight! in 15 short minutes. yey!
I hope you all have a Happy Easter no matter who you are with or what you are doing!
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
