Yeah I think my wife would have the same reaction to #1, when I first accused her of the A she said she's done she's moving out... but I don't think she was quite prepared for that at the time. I definitely see conflict within her which allows me to maintain a level of hope.

If I were to expose I think it would push her over the edge and ruin any hope of drawing her back. The fact that she's cake eating shows me that she enjoys some aspects of our relationship as it is - good or bad, its these things that will hopefully draw her back if I stop giving her cake.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17