So if I lay down the grownd rules she questions why... should I bring up the A? or just the fact that she's moving out? I feel I'm walking on egg shells where anything I say will set her off.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17