No I haven't talked to a Lawyer yet as that seems like I'd be pushing the D then (which I don't want to do). We live in a no-fault state so everything would be split 50/50 anyways - the bigger issue would be spending + alimony down the road.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17