BTW for those that have separated - how have you dealt with the "legal/financial" side of things?
W seems to want to play it by ear - not do anything formal, I'm reluctant to push anything and go along with it (as pushing my drive her further away) but at the same time want to protect my interests.
She's cake-eating. Don't stand for that.
Go talk to a lawyer first and know your rights. They'll usually do the first consultation for free. You don't want to get taken for a ride later if the A turns serious!
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
