Doing everything wrong...

[PacLove]

BTW for those that have separated - how have you dealt with the "legal/financial" side of things?

W seems to want to play it by ear - not do anything formal, I'm reluctant to push anything and go along with it (as pushing my drive her further away) but at the same time want to protect my interests.

Fortunately she's generally a thrifty spender, other then the odd trip she's been talking about possibly doing when on her own, I think she'd do what's best to preserve as much cash as possible. IF we go the D path I know she wants to do it on our own to save the legal fees (if possible).