I'm definitely uneasy about it... the bigger issue I have is that lies and dishonesty are there making it very difficult to trust.

It'd be completely different had it came before the A and not as a reaction to the A. not that I'd accept it but at least we could have a up front honest conversation about it. It could well be that she presented it before the A took place as a way to introduce it and based on my reaction she decided not to push it and go ahead with the A. I don't know how long it's been going on, but it's been at least since last June, possibly longer.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17