Very true. There are probably lots of variables that are not presentable in text on a forum that is happening behind the scenes. Those are the things that contribute to R or D in the end. Yet it's human nature to continually seek out the silver bullet to solve our urgent problem.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016