Very true.
There are probably lots of variables that are not presentable in text on a forum that is happening behind the scenes. Those are the things that contribute to R or D in the end. Yet it's human nature to continually seek out the silver bullet to solve our urgent problem.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016