Originally Posted By: otw
I don't even think the absence is for the W at this point. That was the problem the first time. Ny did that already this NC needs to be for Ny


yep exactly... go NC for yourself NY. Then you can avoid these situations and focus on yourself. It gets easier, just stick with it.

I still think you need to make her see life without you. I mean really really see it.. not a few days, not a week. She needs to feel loss. She has not felt that yet. She is toying with you. Don't fall for those temp checks. They all do it. You gotta be strong. Hour long phone conversations?? heck no. You got this.