There are no logical answers. She is an emotional mess and when she has one of her lows, she turns to the very one she is rejecting. It's like a crazy type of temp check, where she puts the hook out there by asking how you felt about "us", and when you take the bait by telling her you still love her and don't want a divorce.........she jabs you in the gut again. It's as if when she is experiencing her lows, she wants to make sure you are still willing to save the M, and she takes the opportunity to let you know she is hurting but she's still going through with her plans. She leaves the conversation knowing you are still there as a backup.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
