Well, we're now N-1 (normal minus 1 day). W missed the weekend session but due to our travel, I let her off the hook for Sun PM. I'm not sure if LM tomorrow is going to count for a midweek or last weekend. Ideally, she will ML tomorrow, then again on Thurs, then on the weekend to catch up. Yah right, wouldn't that be nice. Nope. I'm just going sit on my hands and take it.
How do you enforce boundaries? I can't exactly punish her for missing it. If I become a pill, she will want to be with me less. EEEK!! THIS IS IT!!!! THE CORE OF MY ANGER. IT'S TO DO WITH THE FACT THAT I'M POWERLESS. How do you regain power? How do you express your disappointment without pissing your partner off? Every time I get into this quandary, I begin to think that the only way to have an PA outside the M. What else can we do? They hold the sex over our head...playing with it like it's a doggie treat that they avoid giving to us until the last minute. What can we hold over their heads? The security of the R? A denial of the tiny drop of love juice that it takes to fill their cup? Oh man this sucks. I might need to go back to my Screaming Room again and just let it out.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
