Depressed to WW

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I should say I think her depression isn't the main issue with her. While she had depression bad when she was younger that has gotten much better. And no she is not on medication. I believe that main issues with affected us is her relationship issues that have come from her parents divorce. Her parents divorced, re-married, had another kid, and divorced again. Her dad was an alcoholic (since has gotten better), her mom had an A. She says she wanted her parents to get a divorce. She was 16 when the second divorce happened. Then later on, her mom bounced around from guy to guy and is now married to her ex-husbands brother. Yes, not a good foundation for my wife. This is more where her issues lie and her unsettled feelings in relationships. She doesn't want to acknowledge the connection. I know this something she needs to see on her own.

She has always seemed to have "one foot out the door". I have felt it throughout our M but never confronted it directly. Don't rock the boat right! She was always protecting herself from getting hurt. That's what I believe has brought us here where she is unwilling to work on our issues which are based on communication. Communication can be worked on. At least you can work on it and then make a decision.