Vanilla asked: Are those your reasonable boundaries?
Yes.
Was this enforcing?
Yes.
Was this the right time to enforce or was it for the sake of it?
I believe it was the right time to enforce. It was to protect myself from being yo-yo'ed once again. It's happened already a number of times and I had no indication anything would be different this timme.
Is this getting you towards your goal?
Idk. Depends on what the goal is... To protect myself so I hurt less when I leave in 2 weeks - yes.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17