Vanilla asked:
Are those your reasonable boundaries?

Yes.

Was this enforcing?

Yes.

Was this the right time to enforce or was it for the sake of it?

I believe it was the right time to enforce. It was to protect myself from being yo-yo'ed once again. It's happened already a number of times and I had no indication anything would be different this timme.

Is this getting you towards your goal?

Idk. Depends on what the goal is... To protect myself so I hurt less when I leave in 2 weeks - yes.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17