I know how difficult all of this is and although you know it was wrong what you did I understand why.

This so what I was afraid of for you when you were opening up to her

I think it is time for NC and don't break for a set period of time. More than 10'days as well. She temp checks and knows how to play this. No more enabling her

I really do feel for you.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15