I'm sorry to read that you were served with divorce papers, but you are ready for anything that comes your way.
I'm very happy that S14 is w/you and the both of you are going up north to spend time w/your family for Easter. You both need a break from the MLC madness. Enjoy your time away.
Drive safely and have a great time!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.