Just curious, why do LD have to learn to feel and like sex? This is something that is hard for me to fathom.
Well, I can only speak for myself. I come from one of those religious backgrounds of "don't touch, don't look, don't even think about it". The problem was, it wasn't explained that sex in M is great and expected to be that way. Sooooooo, after a while of getting that message, you tend to turn it off. And you know the old saying, if you don't use it you lose it. Bingo! We have a winner. Now fast forward to marriage. It's a bit hard to do a 180 from nope to oh baby!, after all, you haven't needed it before so what's the big deal? So I needed the time to unlearn my past. With life, kids, and whatever demanding my time, it's easier to just drop back into that don't need it period of time.
Did this make any sense? Sorry, didn't sleep well last night and I'm losing it.
