Raine, The responses you have received are all spot on. You did everything you could to save your marriage, but at the end of the day, he is still broken and it may take years for him to fix himself or he could be one of those who will stay stuck and just float along on the boat of life.
Bea's posting is very much spot on. When it's all said and done, we do find ourselves and learn so much about ourselves and then we discover that renewed capacity for love and even more compassion for our fellow person. Raine, you are a success story. Please do not ever doubt that.
Bea, A quick shout out to you! Hope you are doing well and you are missed on the forum, but I do understand the need to move onward and upward.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
