That is bad. Who is saying that you have to pay alimony? Alimony is not child support.
The state. I live in a very liberal state, the laws are all skewed. Even during separation, my WW will get a very high alimony (it's actually called "spousal support" versus "child support" here.) Most of the Left Coast have it. It works out to be about 32% of our total income together, while child support is only 12%. So she ends up with about 44% of MY income!
I can understand if my WW is a battered woman with no means constantly abused by her H, but she is a Wayward Wife who filed for divorce when her H confronted her with her betrayal!
Terrible!
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
