Flight's Thread #2

[Flight]

My sitch seems like a mix in that I HAVE done things to hurt her as Sandi said. So it is a combination of her feeling slighted in the marriage and then becomming delusional with her fantasy land created in the affair.

She went on this crazy feeling sorry for herself rant about how she is afraid of me. I could overpower her if I wanted. She needs to move so she can feel safe again. I could picture her swooning in a 1920's silent film with the line, "I wonder how long after I am on my own before I will feel secure again". I was dumbfounded. Painting me to be an abuser now! And all this because she tried to rip papers out of my hand that I had taken back from a table. I won the tug of war and she said she broke 2 nails. That *I* broke her nails. I supposed the folder could press charges against one or both of us. That was the only victim I saw in this.

I am so tired of the delusional fantasy she is creating. To what end? To tell people so what she is doing seems justified? To create an abuse narative in case she needs to extract something from me? To get a rise out of me and see if I bite? This seems to me like when those soccer players take a fall to try and get the ref to give the other guy a penalty.