I want to work on spending more time together doing things with each other in the hope that we could build a new relationship but with the times that I work and the times that she works how can this be repaired especially as she does not want it to be.
She is content just to let us drift further and further apart until there is nothing
I feel the reason you are stuck is b/c you vacillate between saying what we have told you about needing to separate from her.....and what you have said above.
I would think every LBS has the same desire as you do. Sometimes, we have to accept the fact that what we want and what we need to do are two different roads.
You see separating as ending the M. However, if you would go ahead and just do it.....it might eventually be the start of a new MR. You can see that staying in the same house is not working.
Hi sandi thank you for checking in with me I have good days and bad days even good hours and then bad hours
I think he reason that I see the separation as the ending of the marrage is because my wife is adament that when the house sells she will divorce me
What I do know is being in the house with her right now is not fun
The past 25 years she has told me everywhere she has gone out and we talked about who and wher she went not all she says is u am out tonight so my mind races
If we're in seperate houses then I do not get to see this
Things do have to change I know this
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
