Cadet, thank you so much for all of the above information.
I have read both the Divorce Busting book and the Divorce Remedy book and have done my best to put them into practice for about the last year and a half. Up to this point I felt very positive about the small changes that have happened over time. I really felt like things were changing for the better up until this past few weeks.
Thank you for pointing out to me that he may have depression. I think you may well be right on the button there. It does run in his family. His brother sufferers quite severely from depression as well as a number of his cousins.
Realizing that it may be depression helps make me feel a little better that I at least have a clue about what might drive his actions currently. The problem is, he won't even take aspirin for a headache. The chances of him taking any kind of depression meds or even talking to a professional about it would be less than zero. Trying to discuss it with him, I feel, would make him angry and drive a further wedge between us.
