Thank you for the advice. I am doing all of those things actually, keeping myself very busy so that I don't get bogged down. I have read DR/DB.

My question was more to have to engage at all with my H. Since we are LDR the only communication we can have is text and calling.

Me:33 H:34
T: 3yrs M: 2yrs
H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15
H wants to "make it work" 12/28
BD: 3/10/16