I'll add my agreement to everybody else here, you need to get some space here from your W. Just in case you missed it I REGRET NOT MOVING OUT OR SEPARATING AT THE START AS I THINK IT WOULD BE OVER BY NOW. Sorry for pointing it out, again, but whilst I can see you are improving yourself (gym etc.) I think your W won't notice because you are both wrapped up in stress and anxiety.

Yes, it's gonna be really hard and everybody here knows exactly what the feeling is like. We all wish it was over, but doing nothing and sitting wringing your hands for an answer isn't gonna help. Be proactive, not reactive. A house is just bricks - it's what's in it that's worth fighting for.

Come on man, you can do this!


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015