Yeah, thanks guys I guess I am just in denial. I will start checking with lawyers just to see. Vise, my wife does have a point though, we really never got anything, we lived in a CRAPPY apartment in a really crappy part of town and never really bought furniture or anything. She put up with that for 7 years. I can't put all the blame on her. I do think that it's disproportionate to how she's treating me though. Lots of things I would do different in retrospect.