Melo,
Don't be afraid to go talk to a lawyer. They typically won't charge you for the first consultation. You should interview three of them first anyway and make sure you have a good fit, even if it's for later.

You need to know your rights and be prepared financially if D is on the horizon. Knowledge is powerful, don't run away from it.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016