Are you developing sexual aversion? Is it because of his style? Or maybe you generally are just ticked off at him in the relationship? Or is it becuase he is not romantic enough for you? There is a lot of difference between romance and sex. My wife wants romance, but not really sex.
Quote: I'm the LD partner and have had a fantastic sexual relationship pre-H with a partner who knew how to push every single one of my buttons in the right way.
Push the right buttons? Does this mean you have a problem with arousal and maybe always have? This would mean you ARE LD. If you rely upon the other spouse to get you in the mood, then this would be a trait of LD's. HD people really never need to "Get in the mood" as we pretty much are always in the mood.
Why does he flip out when you suggest something different in bed? A trait of HD guys is they like as much variety as they can get. If our wives want to try soemthing new, we are all for it usually. And soemthing else, why would he not want to do something to please you? The most important part of sex is not getting our own rocks off, but to drive the wife insane with pleasure. Heck, I would love to give the wife head 3 times a day if she would give me sex 3 times a WEEK!
