I see my W in yours. I got the we never have anything speech and I got the I am not where I want to be with the big house and vacations speech. Its not a very attractive to hear that.
I am saying this with hope that you will change your mind, go see the lawyer.
What she is asking is not a marriage. There is a process that needs to be followed and you have rights. To know them you talk to a lawyer. If you don't have a separation agreement you will need to express boundaries and ways to enforce them. She cant just get up and go live with the kids. You can stash all the money you want but W is entitled to half of it. Just keep that in mind.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
