However, if you make yourself unavailable, the chances of her missing you will be much greater in physical S. It's something about a woman seeing the man she dumped doing much better than she ever imagined. He is active. He looks great. And, he seems happy! Somehow, it hits home with her that he could be so happy without her being the center of his universe. She realizes the single life is not what she thought it would be. She starts to reevaluate what she really wants.
JB, if you want to see this in action, read through my last few threads. Not sure where it will lead or what I even want but it is progressing as described above...
