So wife just texted me.

W: I'm going to finalize my lease. I'm going to put down the pet deposit. I need to take Shelley.

Me: I understand.

W: Thank You

Me: No problem

W: Smiley face Blushing


When we talked about my wife moving out she said she wasn't taking our cat. I really am not that attached to the cat is she is. I hope I made the right decision. I didn't feel like this was a good place to show tough love. I think it would definitely come across as me punishing. Any thoughts?


Me-LBH, 44
Spouse-WAW, 41
Married for 9 years
S, 7 S, 5
BD - November 20th 2015