I replied to him, via text "Thank you very much for taking care of the taxes. I really appreciate you doing that. I have copies".

He immediately replied with "Of course. I will make sure to pay the balance when the statement comes".

He then sent a text saying he will take over paying for our storage unit. I replied with "I understand. I need some time to figure out what I will do with my things and then get back to you".

His replies (4 texts) "Keep them there" "I'll cover the cost" "I'm not dropping you from health insurance either" "I can try to do the car insurance too".

I did not reply...

I feel like he is just trying to be nice to me to make this easier on me because he is feeling guilty about wanting a divorce. It seems like he is trying to wrap things up and move forward, although I understand this is my assumption only.

I don't want to text with him anymore and today I feel even more hopeless that he is certain about his decision.

PATIENCE I keep telling myself...

If he sends anymore texts I have told myself to not reply...

I like the 48 hour rule and look forward to any thoughts.


Me:33 H:34
T: 3yrs M: 2yrs
H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15
H wants to "make it work" 12/28
BD: 3/10/16